Hello from Montana:
Shyness is an adjective or label imposed by others when they observe someone who does not communicate well and is at unease in social situations. We may label ourselves as “quiet, reticent, unassuming or even self-contained.”
People who are shy in social situations usually do not see it as a problem until someone points it out or draws attention to the behavior. The perspective of how to look at shyness is interesting, because those who are shy, see only a quiet demeanor. Observers however, tend to judge the shy person as standoffish, rude, snobby, superior attitude and wants to be left alone.
Starting The Change From Shy to Confident
It is important for those who consider themselves as quiet or not good at communication to realize that it is okay to be quiet occasionally. Everyone has periods of being quiet and also of being confident and outgoing.
If you want to learn to be more confident, especially in social situations, be willing to take a few chances. One never grows in confident by staying in a comfortable place. It is only when you step out of your old habits and find a new comfort level that you move toward success.
Practice The Steps To Overcome Shyness
Being shy is not a disease, it is a behavior. Behaviors can be changed. Belief systems and negative thoughts can be changed.
Communication is a process of sharing in a relationship. Just by forcing yourself to smile, you will find others more receptive to you and your ideas. The next time it will be easier and easier.
Please commit to starting on the journey to no longer by shy in social situations. For additional support and assistance, please go to: